Funeral services: frequently asked questions

Funerals and funeral services are not the kind of topics we usually talk about over a cup of tea or during dinner. However, when faced with the loss of a loved one or when thinking about the inevitability of the end of our own life, many questions related to funerals begin to arise. We start considering what is better: cremation or traditional burial? Which coffins and urns are the most suitable? What is embalming, and so on. Understanding that people often have many different questions, “Vilniaus laidojimo namai” have prepared answers to the most frequently asked questions.

• What is a funeral?

It may sound strange, but some people do ask this. A funeral is any ceremony that gives the deceased person’s family members and friends an opportunity to express love, respect, and grief over the loss of someone dear. No matter what you choose—cremation or traditional burial—funerals help mourners express their sadness and come to terms with the loss.

• Can I personalize a funeral?

Yes, you can. After all, every person is unique, and their life story is unique and one of a kind. A funeral home can, where possible, help adapt your wishes to the funeral ceremony. You can find truly unique ways to say goodbye in your own way.

• What is cremation?

Cremation is when a coffin or a special container with the body is placed into a chamber where the temperature reaches about 1400–1800 degrees. Under the effect of heat, the body is turned into ashes, which are then very carefully placed into an urn.

• What if a loved one died abroad?

“Vilniaus laidojimo namai” ensure that the repatriation of the deceased from abroad goes smoothly. Document processing and the transportation of the deceased typically takes from three days to several weeks. This depends on the laws in the specific country and the circumstances of death. Preparing documents and obtaining permits for transportation usually takes 2–7 days.

• Why is embalming needed?

Embalming slows down the process of decomposition, and in cases of traumatic death or illness, it can improve the appearance of the body. Loved ones have more time to prepare for the funeral. In the West, it is common for family members to take part in the embalming process. It is said that this practice can bring significant emotional benefit to those who find it difficult to accept death.

• What is a columbarium?

A columbarium is a place (a building) where urns are interred. Most often, columbaria are located near crematoriums and in cemeteries.

• What should I wear at the funeral home?

You can wear what you feel comfortable in, but your outfit should be respectful. Usually, darker colors are recommended: black, brown, or grey—unless the deceased person’s family has indicated otherwise.

• Coffins: what do I need to know?

Coffins are made from metal (bronze, copper, or steel), wood, and other materials. They can come in various styles and colors. Prices vary depending on the materials used. Mahogany coffins are more expensive than pine ones. Additional details may also cost extra.

We often do not think about funerals, but when tragedy strikes, we are forced to learn about funeral services. If you have questions about burial, are not sure which coffins or flowers are most appropriate, or you are hesitating whether cremation is the right choice—contact us. We will answer all your questions and help you find the best solution during a difficult moment. The professional and experienced team of “Vilniaus laidojimo namai” ensures impeccable service quality.